My Obsession with Menu Planning

So my path to being an obsessive menu planner did not happen overnight. The seeds of it were planted when our first son was still a toddler and, while wanting to remain a stay-at-home Mom, I just worked 1 day a week as an RN to maintain my nursing license. However, between the babysitter who came to the house, and my husband multi-tasking diapers and Lego duty--my love for my crockpot was born to insure our son wasn't fed hotdogs and mac & cheese everytime I was gone. The other problem, is that I'm a slight health food nut---I like to make everything from scratch, I am fundamentally opposed to bacon--to the woeful chagrin of my husband. Another issue is we live "in the boonies". While there is a great grocery store in town, the prices for many items are much cheaper if I travel 40 minutes away. However, every busy Mom knows a shopping trip with that driving time can eradicate the better part of a day in no time. Enter two more bouncing baby boys, a decision to send all 3 boys to our Christian school, carpools, a few more hours at work, growing appetites, my husband's genetic high cholesterol that was resistent to traditional meds and a perfect storm was created. The final piece of straw that finally sealed my identity as an obsessive menu planner was our youngest son's kindergarten year. He was an October baby who tested "young" in some areas, but above average in other areas. The right decision for him that year was to homeschool him, and he joined his class in 1st grade at our Christian school. We subsequently found out about some vision/motor tracking issues that were distorting his test results--but that required some eye excercises and more responsibilities I needed to fulfill. Who has time to shop? And even a half day away from our homeschool curriculum to grocery shop, when I was already working a day to help pay private school tuition was just not feasible. I either needed to clone myself, or learn to streamline my families' menu and meal prep while still satisfying my inner desire to fulfill all the RDA requirements for all the vital nutrients daily. The piece de resistance came when I discovered Sams Club, where I already had a membership, has a free service called, "Click and Pull". I could actually electronically order up my grocery list in the solace of my home in the midst of reviewing phonograms and writing nursing policies on BLS renewal, have someone else shlepp my order to me and be in and out in 15 minutes or less. Genius! The only problem with buying that much food is you must plan it--or it will go to waste, and you must have a place to store it properly. Also, when you buy in bulk you must budget for it initially. When you buy a month's worth of food for 3 growing boys--4 count the hubs--you bet those dollar signs ring out, Ka-ching. I set to work. While the boys all quietly played Legos, interspersed with skirmishes over Lego guys that had their accessories stolen and hijacked to a sibling's "Lego shelf", homework, carpools, squirrel..oh yes..back to menu planning--I crafted 6-7 weeks of menus around our life. The premise was to stock up on basics and frozen items which I could store in a pantry area and large freezer, then I could make a quick trip to the store in town for meats on sale, fresh produce and milk on a weekly basis--which would only take about 30 minutes of time. If it worked I would save countless hours in travel, impulse buys would be eliminated, the dilemna about "what to cook" every night and the inevitable storm of chaos that surrounds the 5PM hour when homework, showers, drum practice, sports practice and telemarketing calls all occur would be solved. Additionally, if I stuck to raw bulk items, I could save a lot of money! If you notice I write in run on sentences frequently that is just how my brain works--it's a blog not a term paper--so you get the stream of conciousness necessity for my menu planning. Every season I change our menu. I look at my families' schedule and create meals around our needs. For example, this is what my schedule looks like now--the boys are 13,11 and 9 years old. I work Mondays and Fridays at the surgical center from 9-2PM. I drop the boys off at school and pick them up--it's just I'm not around during the day to premake anything for dinner--and we all know about that 5PM hour. Wednesdays I am a closer in the recovery room of the surgical center. On Tuesday afternoons I teach gym at our kids' school. And as a new undertaking, this fall I teach cross country on Mondays, Tuesdays and Thursdays until 4:15. On Fridays for the next 2 months we have cross country meets. Oh, and last winter, on a whim I started a business making herbal soap, lotion and gift baskets and it's kind of surprisingly taken off so I frequently get orders I need to fill. So this is what my menu looked like this week: Sunday- I made a huge pork loin in the crockpot with potatoes and root veggies Monday- Shredded BBQ pork sandwiches using the leftover pork from Sunday. I carmelized a bunch of onions Sunday night and added a little cider vinegar and BBQ sauce to to the pork so it could "merry" throughout the day. Add bulky rolls of your choice and a nice salad and you have a wonderful quick dinner Tuesday- Lasagne (using ground turkey, lite Ricotta, spinach) and salad . I made the Lasagne Saturday because I looked ahead at my schedule and saw I would not have time Sunday or Monday to assemble this. Tuesday after cross country practice I came home, popped the lasagne in the oven and was able to hit the shower while the kids started homework. Then I made the salad while the boys started showering from practice. Isaac serendaded us to drum practice..it was a beautiful plan. Wednesday is always leftover cleanout extravaganza because I am a closer at the surgical center, in the recovery room. I don't usually leave until the last patient leaves, which is always unknown. Peter has to fly solo that night with homework etc, so I always make sure we have leftovers from the previous 3 nights they can graze on--plus no food wasted. I know the leftovers will be eaten by Wednesday. Thursday-Kielbasa, potato and black bean stew is in the crockpot. Black beans are a favorite--they have 7 grams of protein and 7 grams of fiber per serving. If I can put black beans in something I will. They are cheap, nutritious and so versatile. I love them. Also tonight I will get the bread machine going and make some whole wheat Italian bread and a salad. I use 1 pound of Kielbasa for a 6 quart crock of stew. It is more for flavoring and to give my carnivorous husband the inkling there is meat in this meal, however, I am counting on those beans to provide the bulk of protein. As a note I opened a GALLON of crushed tomatoes for this recipe and used 1/2 of it. That whole gallon cost me $2.20. In the grocery store I would be lucky to get 24 ounces of sauce with added sugar for that much--this has no sugar. Score. In a little while I will go pick up the boys, we'll all practice cross country and when I come home dinner will be done so I can devote my time to helping them with homework etc. Friday--Lemon seasoned Tilapia--which cooks quickly after cross country meets, sauteed green beans and carrots (frozen whole green beans and I precut whole carrots into matchstick size to toss in), rice and red beans (seasoned with a little paprika, chili powder) I also like this combo because a whole grain and a legume make a complete protein . Cook in chicken broth with fat skimmed that I made after I simmered a whole chicken from a quick Hannaford rotisserie chicken night. Saturday--is always homemade pizza and movie night. I break out the bread machine and make a homemade thin crust with at least half whole wheat flour. I always use unbleached King Arthur flour when I use white flour. Unbleached flour maintains more vitamins and is better for you. If you use strictly whole wheat you have to add gluten, so I just add enough white flour to help the crust rise. We add my own sauce--no sugar and veggies and a little mozarella cheese--much cheaper in bulk and easily frozen. We laze around, cuddle, talk about our week, watch a fun movie and eat pizza. Sunday is ready for another big slab of roast beast to start off the week. I've had many people ask me over the years why I plan my menu, how I do it, what is the benefit--so I decided to jot it down. I'll have more installments when I have time, but for now off to set the bread maker and prewash the lettuce for tonight's dinner. I hope when my kid's are grown they'll always remember no matter how busy life got, no matter what was going on, we always paused, ate dinner together, and finished our day in the haven of home and family.